I am so sick and tired of people telling others to "get over it". I am told that my son died almost 5 years ago and that I need to just let it go and move on. I have seen this same shit said to rape victims, those who have been molested, domestic violence victims, and so many others! Also tragedy effects people differently to some what one person is going through is a cake walk, but to the person actually dealing with it it could be the worst thing that has happened to them!
People deal with things differently, "we" won't get over shit just because you think we should. We will do it on our own terms. Thank You Very F'ing Much!