life? I love my dh and kiddos, but I feel like I have lost everything that makes me ME. I am creative and artistic. I LOVE my family but I feel so down and trapped sometimes like where the FFFF did I go? I used to be someone who had ambitions and ideas now I have laundry piles and dishes. I used to do sculputre, poetry, painting and attend art openings now I make halloween costumes and dinner! I miss hot and heavy sex with my dh, actually I just miss sex period - I will even settle for mediocre (with dh of course) I just need someone else who understands, I am not about to do anything drastic, I just would like to know how you deal with it.