How or Why is ex in picture at all. There is a reason he was your ex... And there is a reason you chose to be with dh, I'm sorry but I can't blame dh for leaving if my ol man said he was thinking about one of his ex's and can't get her off his mind. that would be my cue to leave... why stay with someone you don't want? or why should he stay with someone who doesn't want him, but for security reasons? not a reason to base on a relationship. But! good news is you are at least open about it, and if you want to fix the relationship i think you can, and you will have a lot to prove to him... or if not you will be able to step up to being a single parent, its alarming at first but you can do it.
I'll be honest. I don't have much sympathy for you.
If you ask me, you basically got what you wanted. If you really think you can't handle your kids by yourself, maybe you should let your husband have custody. You can then have this "perfect" life you keep dreaming of with your ex.
Shut up!!!! My fertility has NOTHING to do with your infertility!
Is the money mine or my kids?
- NDADanceMom
on Nov. 8, 2011 at 4:03 PMkarma