Im Sara & new & hope be friends with someone
Welcome to the group!
How old are your boys?
Welcome! I don't have twins but think mothers of multiples are AWESOME!! I couldn't imagine having twins or more... Takes a STRONG person to handle multiples... I have 2 DD's 19mths apart and couldn't imagine them being any closer in age.. And one on the way! lol
HI sara, welcome to the group. How is being a mommy to twins?? I barely have the patience for the one I have :)
They are FRATS, almost 6mths old on the 28th will be. Being a mother to twins is very stressful 24/7. All the work that is needed to care for them & because I also need my own time I don't go to bed like I should so I can have my own time for a bit. I don't want that time to end but it always does. It sucks actually, I hate it but I Love my boys to death. Yes both are boys. Their names are Lucius & Luciun Martinez. 1st time to be a mom of my own kids. No freedom at all. I dont talk to anyone or go anywhere. I am overprotective & haven't even let anybody else watch my babies yet either. I just don't trust anybody to care for the both of them & do it with quality. Especially if they are not experienced in caring for twins. I have no patience what so ever either. It wares me down every single day. Many moments go by where I think I will just lose it. But I love my boys so much, they our my purpose in life so I have learned my answer for why am I here & still alive too. I never thought I would live past 17yrs old. I did & I also have had many death experiences, I am still here. Each time I felt at peace. Always questioning why I'm still here, there must be a reason & my boys are my purpose. They keep doing good things & not going out to party or to do bad things. They are the light in my life & I have to lead by example if I expect them to become men I am proud of. Being their mom is actually really hard, I don't expect full comprehension of the full duty to being the mom of twins if that person has not cared for twins in their life before or currently are. Everybody only sees how easy I make it look. In fact is the most challenging & changing life experience I have ever had & must live. still sucks too
They are almost 6mths & will be on the 28th. Both boys, completely different & opposite personnalities of eachother. Polar oppposites of the other, They are a blessing at the same time, God's children.
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