Getting Pregnant WITHOUT His Permission

[Anonymous]

I wanna know what you think about getting pregnant or planning to get pregnant without your boyfriend/fiance/husband etc. knowing that you're actually trying. I know it's your body and you can due what you want. But how do you feel about it? Would you ever do it? Like if you stop taking your birth control or poke holes in the condom, regaurdless of how it's done. How do you feel about it?

[Mysty_1961]

Not a good idea - kind of like cheating

[Anonymous]

 I think it is wrong on so many levels. Why lie about wanting a baby with the person you love? I think it sounds like entrapment.

[Anonymous]

I don't think it's a good idea. But if they both want a child and just don't know if they're ready and are just gonna procrastinate maybe it's okay to get the ball rolling. It just depends if he wants a child.

[Anonymous]

I suspect my sister did this by some things she said the father has nothing to do with the child it's sad

[BaseballMom34]

This is exactly why I think men should have a choice in giving up rights to a child same as we do.

[answeet]

I think that more women do this, then they would like to admit

 

[milmomma2006]

Having a baby is a BIG decision. IMO, for a relationship to work, be it a bf/gf situation or a marriage, all big decisions have to at least be discussed. Not all have to be agreed upon, but this one definitely does! No one should bring a baby into a relationship in which both people involved don't want it!! It's not fair to anyone involved and really is just a set up for failure.

[Anonymous]

Im tring To have a baby with my xdf without telling him. We already have 2 kids together and i want 1 more. But i dont want different fathers

[JACAR2010]

It's not right. I would not do it.

[JACAR2010]

No way. i think it's unfair, wrong and I would not do it.