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Getting Pregnant WITHOUT His Permission

Anonymous
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I wanna know what you think about getting pregnant or planning to get pregnant without your boyfriend/fiance/husband etc. knowing that you're actually trying. I know it's your body and you can due what you want. But how do you feel about it? Would you ever do it? Like if you stop taking your birth control or poke holes in the condom, regaurdless of how it's done. How do you feel about it?

Posted by Anonymous on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:50 AM
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BEXi
by BEXi on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:51 AM
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Horrible thing to do. I think it's one of the worst things you can do to betray your SO. He would never trust you again.

new.identity
by on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:53 AM
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You are not only setting yourself up for misery but you are also setting your SO and child up for the same. A child deserves to be welcomed by both parents, it's what makes the family so special. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:53 AM
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He would never find out you did it on purpose unless you tell him though.

Miss-B
by ♥Divalicious♥ on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:54 AM


Quoting BEXi:

Horrible thing to do. I think it's one of the worst things you can do to betray your SO. He would never trust you again.

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Georgia1305
by on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:54 AM
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That to me is awful why would anyone do that to someone else . 

Miss-B
by ♥Divalicious♥ on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:55 AM
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Well said!!

Quoting new.identity:

You are not only setting yourself up for misery but you are also setting your SO and child up for the same. A child deserves to be welcomed by both parents, it's what makes the family so special. 

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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:56 AM

The reason why I'm asking is because I have known some family members and friends who have done this.

.Pagan.
by on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:56 AM
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i wouldn't do it. if you arent telling him it is most likely because you don't think he would agree...it means you are taking his genetic components and using them without his permission. not my style. if a man doesn't want a child with me then fine he isn't who i should be mating with.

kiminsean
by on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:57 AM
Agree


Quoting new.identity:

You are not only setting yourself up for misery but you are also setting your SO and child up for the same. A child deserves to be welcomed by both parents, it's what makes the family so special. 


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BEXi
by BEXi on Nov. 17, 2011 at 10:57 AM
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Quoting Anonymous:

He would never find out you did it on purpose unless you tell him though.

It's disrespectful, and they ALWAYS find out.

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