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you dont deserve pity imo.

i dont care what the circumstances are, that he is abusive, that he doesnt give you enough love, because he is deployed, nothing.

there is no excuse for cheating. if y ou are going to cheat, get a divorce and be a grown ass woman about it.

2 wrongs dont make a damned right.

Are you threatening me?

by on Nov. 29, 2011 at 5:10 AM
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Eliptica
by on Dec. 1, 2011 at 2:22 AM
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there is still no reason you couldnt have left prior to doing that.

Quoting hargonagain:

Actually, cheating was what gave me the strength to walk away from a horrible, 7 year marriage filled with emotional and verbal abuse!  I was stuck and when I finally, after 7 years of dealing with a psycho, ended up cheating, I moved out the next day, filed for divorce 2 weeks later and never looked back.  I lost everything that I couldn't fit in my car.  I was stuck with all the bills, but it was worth it, just to be rid of him!


MissLeanna
by Silver Member on Dec. 1, 2011 at 2:23 AM
Preach it!
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 1, 2011 at 2:28 AM
That is all true but sometimes things happen. When you are missing something and another person comes along and gives it too you it just happens.
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3_girls_86
by Ruby Member on Dec. 1, 2011 at 2:36 AM

Hmm and you think you're cool. bahaha

Quoting Eliptica:

ur quid doesnt count jo

Quoting 3_girls_86:

Glad you got your 2 cents out! 



BrittanyLatham
by on Dec. 1, 2011 at 2:40 AM

Is it cheating if you already left but you where still married waiting for the divorce to go through?

4FAM67860509
by on Dec. 1, 2011 at 2:41 AM
Some will say yes and some will say no. I say if it feels like you're cheating, then yes it is. If not, then no.

Quoting BrittanyLatham:

Is it cheating if you already left but you where still married waiting for the divorce to go through?

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BrittanyLatham
by on Dec. 1, 2011 at 2:46 AM

I don't feel like it was because I did not do anything for months with my husband before I left. Hell we did not even sleep in the same bed. I had my own room. I also was separated waiting divorce for two months before starting a relationship. So over all it was six months of not living like husband and wife.

Quoting 4FAM67860509:

Some will say yes and some will say no. I say if it feels like you're cheating, then yes it is. If not, then no.

Quoting BrittanyLatham:

Is it cheating if you already left but you where still married waiting for the divorce to go through?


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Dec. 1, 2011 at 3:00 AM
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TRY living in the middle of NOWHERE without a car or phone to call someone in the middle of winter with three babies! Nearest neighbor is three miles away. No stroller to put the kids in. No family or friends to talk or turn to.This was me. It took me 1 year to get away. I only escaped because the idiot got Internet and I wrote someone for help.

Quoting Eliptica:

abuse is abuse, no one should stick around.

please give me detailed scenarios where it is IMPOSSIBLE to leave.

Quoting MyDarkAngel:

Did you walk for every possible scenario? Nope.

Quoting Eliptica:

and I certainly walked the walk so shove it.

Quoting MyDarkAngel:

It's very easy to talk the talk, Tara.





Eliptica
by on Dec. 1, 2011 at 3:14 AM

oh sure it happens, but its still not an excuse.

Quoting Anonymous:

That is all true but sometimes things happen. When you are missing something and another person comes along and gives it too you it just happens.


Eliptica
by on Dec. 1, 2011 at 3:15 AM

Does your siggy represent when you cheated jo?

Quoting 3_girls_86:

Hmm and you think you're cool. bahaha

Quoting Eliptica:

ur quid doesnt count jo

Quoting 3_girls_86:

Glad you got your 2 cents out! 




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