My mom is leaving at the end of the month and I want me and the baby to stay with him (her father, my soon to be ex now). She is moving all the way to MD and we are in NY. I dont want to go. But he says I will have a better opportunity there.
Now I have been asking him to give me the money to start up with Ameriplan but he will not give me the $20 to do that. It has been hard trying to find a job here so I can just imagine how hard it will be down there. I know I can do good working from home and I cant really work outside the home anyway with my anxiety, bipolar and bladder issues not to mention our child's schedule and tantrums and just so much stuff. Its just going to be worse moving hundreds of miles away. I dont know what to do right now.
**Edit: I was so lost and hurt yesterday that I left some things out and want to point some things out. I have been with him for 2 years. Our daughter is 1. I am thinking he regrets our child which honestly I dont care about because she will always be loved by me. He knows that I have been trying to look for a job. He flat out said after he told me MD was a better opportunity that he just does not feel like taking care of me and our child. Even though he has been for the last 6 months.
I dont have any money. Yeah my mom is probably going to pay for my ticket to MD and stuff but I started a life here in NY even without him in it, I want to stay. Other than my mom I have no relatives here I can stay with and a shelter is out of the question. I am so hurt and upset right now. My family is like nomads. We have been to 14 different apartments and houses in 2 states since I was born. Im tired of it. I want my child to have some stability and Im really upset that he doesnt want that too but I am also willing to move on. I cant even lay next to him right now Im so upset. But I will move on.
As for working from home, I am trying to do that. I just need the start up cost. You would think $20 wasnt much but it is when you are living check to check. My mom gets fixed income so she has to plan out her money and I dont think she will give me the $20 on top of the $40 ticket to MD so IDK. Ive applied to Lionbridge and Leapforce (2 free companies online) and got denied by one and havent heard anything from the other. I am just stuck right now. I told him from the beginning I dont want his child support. If he is not willing to do anything for our child then he can relinquish his rights but he wont. He wants to have control over everything. I buy most of her stuff doing surveys and the such and getting giftcards and paypal money. He just started buying diapers 2 months ago. Im sick. I cant even sleep right now.
Im sorry for making it so long and thank you all for reading it**