I was thinking of our ttc issues and this passed through my mind: would leave him? I am 23, he's 27. I have a son from a previous relatioship. We have been TTC for 14 cycles and still not pregnant. Can I make a family with a man who can't get me pregnant?
***EDIT***
PLEASE NOTE: i love him with all my heart. I DO NOT plan on leaving him. It was a scary thought and I needed to share.
ALSO:
Would he leave me if we can't have children of our own. We can't afford 10,000$ of fertility treatment, we can't adopt due to the same monetary reasons.
We love eachother but I am scared S**tless of being infertile and him being sterile...
Quoting anikahaynes1:
Of course you can. You may just have to use alternate methods. How sad that youd leave him over that.
Have you and him been to any fertility specialists? Just having one baby doesn't mean you are totally fertile now, so it could be you, him, or both. It is possible to try other methods to making a family. In vitro, fertility drugs, even adoption.
Perhaps go to counseling to try and reason out how important another baby is vs. being in a stable relationship.



- readingmommy
on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:25 PM