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if he can't get me pregnant...EDIT

Posted by on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:25 PM
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I was thinking of our ttc issues and this passed through my mind: would leave him? I am 23, he's 27. I have a son from a previous relatioship. We have been TTC for 14 cycles and still not pregnant. Can I make a family with a man who can't get me pregnant? 

***EDIT***


PLEASE NOTE: i love him with all my heart. I DO NOT plan on leaving him. It was a scary thought and I needed to share. 

ALSO:

Would he leave me if we can't have children of our own. We can't afford 10,000$ of fertility treatment, we can't adopt due to the same monetary reasons. 

We love eachother but I am scared S**tless of being infertile and him being sterile...

by on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:25 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:25 PM
Bump
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Miss-B
by ‚ô•Divalicious‚ô• on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:26 PM
Keep trying with him.
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anikahaynes1
by on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:27 PM
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Of course you can. You may just have to use alternate methods. How sad that youd leave him over that.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:27 PM
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how do you know the problem isnt with your uterus or ovaries?  have you had any testing done yet? 

MzR6Mo2
by on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:28 PM
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Girl be patient ... You are stressing your body out over this. I can tell if your mind is on it enough to post it here means your mind is twice on it when not on here try praying to st gerrad he is the saint of motherhood prayed to him a month later there I was prego :) and relax your mind its your worst enemey if you tell your body he can't you prego you wont.be ... If its that much of a worry go.get his sperm tested and remember it could be you too so id get checked out too
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3xangel
by *Angelicious* on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:28 PM


Quoting anikahaynes1:

Of course you can. You may just have to use alternate methods. How sad that youd leave him over that.
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mommasbabies77
by on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:28 PM
Sounds like true love.
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Mrs.Kubalabuku
by Ruby Member on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:31 PM
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Have you and him been to any fertility specialists?  Just having one baby doesn't mean you are totally fertile now, so it could be you, him, or both.  It is possible to try other methods to making a family.  In vitro, fertility drugs, even adoption.

Perhaps go to counseling to try and reason out how important another baby is vs. being in a stable relationship.

Raysbaby79
by on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:31 PM

Wow I don't know maybe you should decide if you want a family with him if your really willing to leave him because he can't get you prego then I can so feel the love in that relationship.

Francine24
by on Dec. 11, 2011 at 9:31 PM

I agree that is very shallow -_- humanity... sad 

Quoting anikahaynes1:

Of course you can. You may just have to use alternate methods. How sad that youd leave him over that.


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