So my douche of an ex-husband only has our child one weekend out of 2. This weekend was his weekend, sure enough on Friday night he texts me and asks me if I had plans, I answer yes. He proceeds to tell he has his work xmas party and has sitter issues. I tell him "do like I did last year, skip it" He got mad and told me never to ask him a favor again (like I ever do, Hello !)
Then yesterday he texts me to let me know he's dropping her off after dinner because he has to work early the next day and can't drop her off at school. My child comes in looking exausted and somewhat emotional so I sit her down and talk to her, only to find out that she spent THE ENTIRE weekend at his mother's. His party was friday night ... he had not seen her in 2 weeks, Nice Going Genius ! He dropped her off Friday night and picked her back up yesterday just before b-lining for my house basically he spent NO time with her. It breaks my heart ... she doesn't get to see or spend time with her father and he would rather pick a christmas party over his own daughter, what a selfish bastard. At this point I am wondering if the "working early" thing is even true or if that's another excuse not to keep her overnight on Sundays ... the whole thing is making me nautious!