I don't like her boyfriend....... *Vent and kinda long*
So I wound up actually being social for X-Mas and spent time with my family and had a great time actually.
The only thing I can really complain about is my sister's boyfriend decided to invite himself over, I guess after guilting her (he asked her was she ashamed of him or something like that). He came and we were all in the living room and I just got a weird vibe from him. And why can't she just spend the holiday with her family? I mean, if she wanted him to come, she would have invited him right? I didn't like that at all, seemed to possesive to me, almost like he wanted to check up on her, kwim?
Anyways, long story short, she hasn't known him long (maybe 4 months tops) and she keeps saying things like she doesn't like him and 'he's got to go' but I think he's living with her which is why she does not want me or my mom to go over there.
It's not so much as I just don't like him because truth be told, I've never liked any of her boyfriends lol. But I feel like she has a lot going for her and I feel like she chooses losers who never have anything going for them and this time (now that she has her own house) she not only is dealing with him, she allows the loser to move in with her and sponge off of her. Not really my problem, but she's the type who ALWAYS has something to say about how girls she knows are dealing with losers, etc. etc so it's really hypocritical on top of everything else.
Oh and telling her that her bf is a loser and she needs to leave him is really counterproductive, it never works and she'll just drag the relationship out for years. She'll also accuse you of being jealous and bitter (because you're single). So I don't know what to do about the situation other than let it takes its course......
I feel better letting all that out lol