My SO will never give me sex when I ask. I ask about everyday. I get denied because he is "stressed". But finally after a few weeks, he has been asking me for sex. Cool, finally. Well today, he was being flirty and sexy and i gave him a boner. I asked for sex, he said not today, he is not feeling it. WTF. I never get it when i ask, but always give it to him when he asks. So then I went on my computer, being a little pissy. He then comes over and asks if i wanted sex. I told him not anymore. I wasn't fresh because i just went to that bathroom. I gave him the opportunity earlier. He is the first guy that I ever met that denies sex.
So, after i told him no when he asked me for sex before he left for work (2nd time ever in our entire relationship i ever denied him) He just cuddled with me and kept bugging me asking me if I was okay. He was super sweet because he knew he pissed me off. But it shows that he cares. (i think anyways) I didn't keep an attitude at him for too long but i told him that i never deny him sex even when i am not feeling up to par. He asked why, and told me i don't have to. I told him it was because I care about his needs and I also never know when I am going to get some next time. I think this made him more aware of what he has been doing wrong. I think he has depression or anxiety. I just started medication for both and feel fabulous, but he still goes into this funk often. I hope he realizes all of this, and changes. It just bums me out and gets me suspicious when he acts like this towards sex. Thanks ladies!