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Another post got me thinking, butt sex

Posted by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:24 PM
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As some of you know my son is 10 days old now. I haven't had sex with my SO in over 3 months and I can't have sex still even though I am not bleeding anymore.

Can he put it in my butt or will it affect my healing? I feel great down there, no soreness (vagina, I mean) or anything, but I know sex is out of the question til my 6week checkup. 

He's never done anal with me, and it's not really something I do, but I want to screwww!


"If you cannot accept me at my worst, you do not deserve me at my best."- Marilyn Monroe

If being a stubborn, opinionated, educated, headstrong, beautiful woman makes me a b!tch, so be it.

by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:24 PM
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LOVE_mygirls58
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:27 PM

ummm i dunno....

i could never wait the whole 6 weeks..we ended up having sex after 3 weeks lol

hp2011
by Ruby Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:28 PM

I'd consider it, but I know my OBGYN ripped my head off last time I had a baby and had sex at 5 weeks when I told her at my appt.

I have the same OBGYN lol and don't want her to yell at me.

Quoting LOVE_mygirls58:

ummm i dunno....

i could never wait the whole 6 weeks..we ended up having sex after 3 weeks lol


"If you cannot accept me at my worst, you do not deserve me at my best."- Marilyn Monroe

If being a stubborn, opinionated, educated, headstrong, beautiful woman makes me a b!tch, so be it.

Jessica_Esqueda
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:30 PM

I would wait. Anal sex still puts pressure on the vaginal area.
You may feel great but you might not be quite ready yet!

3_girls_86
by Ruby Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:35 PM
I know a few ppl that had sex 3 days after having a baby. Me~~ I waited longer than 6 weeks cuz I wasn't ready.

I'd wait until your appointment.just to be safe.
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NVL0707
by Emerald Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:37 PM
Just have sex and don't tell your ob.I only waited 2 weeks no way I could make it to 6.Lol.
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starryeyez23
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:38 PM
I never waited the 6 weeks. If you feel okay, then do it :-)
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hp2011
by Ruby Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:42 PM

If she does a pelvic exam won't she be able to tell? 

Quoting NVL0707:

Just have sex and don't tell your ob.I only waited 2 weeks no way I could make it to 6.Lol.


"If you cannot accept me at my worst, you do not deserve me at my best."- Marilyn Monroe

If being a stubborn, opinionated, educated, headstrong, beautiful woman makes me a b!tch, so be it.

angi07
by on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:43 PM
The longest I ever waited was 3 weeks so Im no help
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Miss-B
by ‚ô•Divalicious‚ô• on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:44 PM


Quoting starryeyez23:

I never waited the 6 weeks. If you feel okay, then do it :-)



NVL0707
by Emerald Member on Jan. 15, 2012 at 4:46 PM
No,mine didn't.She asked before the exam and I said no.

Quoting hp2011:

If she does a pelvic exam won't she be able to tell? 

Quoting NVL0707:

Just have sex and don't tell your ob.I only waited 2 weeks no way I could make it to 6.Lol.


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