hmm 8 months ago i cut one of my brothers out of mine and my childs life. now i finally had it with my "half sister" god its weird calling her that...... anyways its time for me to cut her out of mine and my daughters life she pulled my last string this month and its not gonna end very pretty for her and i dare her to start a fight with me.
our kids are 3 days apart libby my neice is born on the 26th, tiffany my daughter on the 29th.
so i was gonna have tiffs party on the 20th so all my friends can come and she had a early morning doc appt so she wasnt working that day when she normally does. but she threw a fit about her daughter is older and should have her party first. so i said ok and i changed it to the 29th. she complained again saying she had to work and wouldnt get off till 3pm. so i changed it again to the 31st. then i realized that was a dialysis day for my grams who if extremely attached to my kid. and dialysis days arent good. so i told her it had to be the 29 ill just make it later at night and serve dinner. she said i cant have it the 29th i asked why not if its later she should be able to make it and she said i changed libbys from the 26th to the 29th. i said ok well then i guess you have to miss tiffs and ill do mine at 11 am so that there would be time to get to hers by 4pm. so then she says why not combine them. so i reminded her the whole time we were pregnant she screamed no combined parties, for the last almost year of them being alive she screamed no combined parties. she said no shes over that so i said ok fine i saved $100 for party stuff like food and drink and cake. and i told her i would get a large cake decorated half for tiff half for libby and they each get there own personal cake for free since its there first bday. and ill put the rest into pizza and drinks. she said great and i told her ill only invite 3 people so its not too full and none with kids. i did that mainly cuz i only know 3 people that wont punch her in the face for everything shes done to me the last 4 years. any who, so she calls my mom the next day and says " its stupid to combine the parties libby is the queen and im not changing the party" so my mom calls and wakes me up to tell me i need to change it. boy you cant imagine how pissed i was for being woken up with this crap.
so me and mom talked it over ill change it but no one is going to her party we are gonna stay home have spaghetti wich is tiffs fave, and watch movies, play the ps3, and have a relaxing night and eat icecream, like a family party for tiff since its her birthday. i told mom she can go to libbys since shes the grandma, but she doesnt want to cuz my sisters son is rude and out of control and he is 5. libby no one can touch o be within 5 feet of or she will scream bloody murder. and to top it off every party or get to get her her friends and other side of the family besides her mil and fil talk to our side. then my sister has the balls to send a mass message out of fb inviting a bunch of people (just to day 3 days after) to libbys party on the 29th. so i though i wouldnt embarrass her too much or be rude and start shit infront of her friends so i said " Sorry i have plans, chris (my bf), brian(my brother) and i are going to be spending the day with tiff spoiling her since its HER birthday"
shes always in this power struggle, and competition with the girls. when i post a pic of tiffs first smile, 2 days later there was libby, i posted a pic of tiff standing in her crib smiling so did she 2 hours later, i posted a vid of tiff crawling, then so did she a few weeks later. she sits here telling me how horrible of a mom i am how i should give her up for adoption and so on. so anyways im sick of her games and ill stoop to her level and play them. no prob im going out and ill spend $25 buck on a cake my friend is gonna make and its one of her $100 cakes. im gonna have a party keep sake with the signature of all the guest, take pics of each person holding my kid, and take pics of my kid playing with all the other kids oh yeah im inviting a few more friends and 1 girl has 2 kids. oh yeah ill flaunt my kind and how special and great she is. noooooooo problemo!
sorry for the long rant just needed to let it go :)