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That he only stays for the kids, and that you have turned his life upside down, and made him lose every friend. All of this after four years together and two kids. I never knew any of this until last night. Would you leave?


I'll add he cheated, I took him back.
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by on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:24 AM
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Colleen86
by on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:30 AM
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I wouldn't. I would stay too. As long as there wasn't any fighting. Parents do it all the time for their children

she_walk_softly
by on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:30 AM
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I would try and work though why he feels that way and if it is truly how he feels then he can get to stepin. You'll never make it if 4years in love is lost so don't waist 10more to figure it out :(
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SP_Mama
by on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:31 AM
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Yes, I would.  I don't believe in staying together for the kids.

Bknotnobody
by Gold Member on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:31 AM
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Yes, or I don't know. It depends do you think it can be saved? If I felt it could, then I'd try the love dare, and read the five languages of love or counseling.

glamorousamber
by Bronze Member on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:32 AM
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He probably just said it to hurt your feelings. Just ignore him...he's a douche.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:35 AM
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Hmm, not if he wanted to stay. Shoot, people have moments. No one has to feel butterflies and gum drops throughout the whole relationship.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:39 AM
in my paticular marraige, id let him leave in a heartbeat.
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kngarber
by on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:39 AM
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 I sure would.  I would have packed myself and my kids up and left right then and told him to enjoy his life.

JT32606_
by on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:40 AM
yep
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reese1206
by on Jan. 28, 2012 at 10:40 AM
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Would he be willing to speak with your Pastor or a counseler?
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