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Fat People and Babies.. *Edit for the illiterate*

Anonymous
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this is probably the most terrible thing i have ever said, but I have to confess. I dont think people who are extremly fat should have kids. I'm not talking a little over weight, i'm talking like 300 + pounds.
Why do I feel this way? Because people this large are not active at all. They arent going to be able to play with their kids. or set a good example of staying in shape and being healthy. Their kids are going to sit around and become lazy and probably become large themselves. and thats not healthy at all. that's not giving a child a good life.
even people who are big and it's because of a medical condition. i realize they cant help it, but it doesnt change the fact that they cant move around much without losing their breath, and have to sit down most of the time, or worse they are so big they are in a wheelchair.
These large people will probably also die a lot sooner than thinner people and that will be horrible to put their kids through as well. It's just generally sad for the children involved. Thats why I dont think very very fat people should have kids. 



I know some of you are havimg a hard time reading, since you are like "well i weigh 295, 260, 245, etc, etc" i wasnt talking about you.. if you go back and actually look it says 300+ meaning bigger than you. i'm talking about WOMEN who take literally 5 minutes to stand up, who cant stand all the way up because their weight prevents it, who takes up an entire couch, who needs help going to the bathroom, who cant even reach to the bottom of her stomach and hasnt seen her feet in... ever. the ones who cant fit into vehicles except large vans and trucks that are close to the ground. the ones who physically cant jump or walk more than 50 feet without taking a break. so get over yourselves. i am not talking about you, im talking about women twice your size. maybe i should have said 400+ but i'm talking about extremly morbidly obese women... which i already stated. learn how to read and comprehend before you bitch at me.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:00 PM
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Cara5
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:03 PM
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Shock. This is posted anonymously.  

eye rolling

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:04 PM
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You have a point.
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missamanda86
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:05 PM

Popcorn? Soda? Cookies? Brownies?

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:05 PM
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Medical reason is usually an excuse people use on the way to the drive thru.
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ms_jasmine
by Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:06 PM
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Aww your a sweetheart.lets start sterilizing the poor folks too!
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0Kit0
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:07 PM

I guess *shrugs*

angi07
by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:08 PM
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I don't think judgemental women should have kids. At least I have the balls to not post anon :)
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luv2nap
by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:09 PM
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so lets deprive them the right to have a child.... lets see if i had my choice of a fat mother who loved me and took amazing care of me or a mom that is toked out on pot, on Gov't Asst and my sibs have other fathers.... yeah FAT mom any day of the week!!!!  

MLozano
by Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:09 PM
This

Quoting 0Kit0:

I guess *shrugs*

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cbrizzee
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 6:09 PM
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yes please!! 

lets look at the other side of the same coin, maybe some one who is labled by our society as "fat" who has a child will love their child so much and become so devoted to that child they they do the unthinkable and *gasp* become active!!! 

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