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do you judge women who have children with more than one man?

Posted by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 9:55 PM
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if you do, why? what do you assume about the mother? what do you assume about the children?

if you don't, what do you think make you not pass judgment on something that so many others do?

by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 9:55 PM
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by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 9:57 PM

I don't really judge the moms. It's just something inside me that feels bad for the kid(s).

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Mrs.Miller11
by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 9:59 PM

Depends on the circumstances.

If she wasnt in serious commited relationships when she had the kids, Im less judgmental.

I have two kids by two dads. But I was married to my DD's bio father and now Im married and having his child. Situations like that I can understand

MooreBoysMama
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:00 PM
I would never do it. If it works for you then good.

I also kind of feel bad for the kids.

I guess I am old fashioned.....
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:01 PM
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Depends on how many children and how many men. In fairness I also judge men who go around impregnating women for sport.
kirstn007
by Gold Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:02 PM

no i dont. theres a girl i know who has 3 diff kids by 3 diff dads i dont think she is a hoe i just think she makes some bad choices but i really try not to judge that.

Mamie_85
by Platinum Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:03 PM
No. My kids have two different fathers. I'm divorced and remarried.
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BoggiezMom
by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:04 PM
Why?

Quoting SlightlyPerfect:

I don't really judge the moms. It's just something inside me that feels bad for the kid(s).

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kavp84
by Bronze Member on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:04 PM
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No I don't... One: I know shit happens and the man you thought you would spend the rest of your life with doesn't work out... and also I know sometimes one night stands end up in surprises. Two: I have 4 children, and more than one father.

I will say that sometimes I make snap judgements about women who have several children by ALL different men.

charmony000
by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:05 PM
Nope, shit happens, and my mom had 3 kids by 3 different men, so I'm not one to judge!!!!!
MLozano
by on Feb. 6, 2012 at 10:05 PM
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I try not to judge anybody. Unless i am in their shoes i dont know why they do what they do. Most things i honestly dont really care about. So things dont bother me or peak my interest to judge.
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