So I'll start out with Sunday, Dh dad called around 3ish wanting to know if we wanted to come over for dinner with my BIL, SIL, and their kids. I told dh no I already had dinner in the crock pot if I hadn't started it I wouldn't mind. Well he had replied idk I think we prob will tho to his dad... so I'm making bread when dh comes in and says thought we were going to his dads I said I didn't want to I already had dinner going, his dads idea was just to take the whole crock pot over and they could all eat it. I said if you really want to go you can but I'm just gonna stay here I don't want to pack everything up. ANYWAYS he told his dad we weren't bc I kept cooking...I think there may have been some miscommunication between dh and I honestly I may have said if you REALLY want to go, and he didn't reply....So my sil continued to msg me constantly wanting to know if we were coming, and bil/fil kept texting dh..
SO...today dh text me says his brother called MIL and she said she'd watch the kids Sunday so we all could all go to a movie. I reminded him we have NO money until the 3rd week this month, all of our bills are due the first two weeks AND we have lots of one time payments this month, lawyer fees, car needs to get registered again, insurance both renters and car is due this month, I feel like I'm forgetting more BUT needless to say we DONT have the extra money until next week. I'm sure we'll both have to hear it again and constantly texted. Some people just cant take no for an answer. BTW if they're busy or broke and cant do something with us we leave it at that.