1. Prior to the spanking?
2. when they are not spanked just in general?
3. When your hands come close to there face?
I dont spank but I have a friend that spanks her 3 and 5 yr not ALOT But sometimes for serious things. She is reconsidering her dicipline methods bc her 5yr started flinching alot.. So this makes me wonder if you spank does your child flinch?