Ok so my dh just got a good job, high pay & health benefits too. My dad(is out of a job) wants my dh to help him get hired there, BUT my dh is saying NO. Obviously, my parents are upset & telling me that we are selfish, family is supossed to help out. I agree BUT ny dh & I have good reasons for not wanting to. Firstly, my dad has a horrible temper, doesnt like to follow policies, makes rude comments, doesnt take cinstructive critism well, therefore he is ALWAYS getting fired from every job. Growing up we were always struggling bc my dad couldnt keep a job until my mom finally got a good job. At my dhs last job, he refered my dad, they hired him. Then my dad got caught stealing money from there & so my dh was very embaressed, since everyone knew they were related. So thats why we are saying NO, but I do feel horrible so WWYD?