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he cant get off

Anonymous
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after 6 years of being together i cant get my husband off, its been going on for months. he cant get when is under the influence of alchol or when he is sober and its driving me up the wall. we  have a very active sex life, he just cant get off. we try different things all the time. i am at my witts end now. urghhhhhhhhhhhhhh i am about to cry because i feel like i am not doing what i should as a wife.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 8, 2012 at 12:43 PM
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Cacophobia06
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 12:51 PM

Maybe he needs to see a Dr about it. 

bruyere123
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 12:55 PM
It may be an testosterone problem
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young_lv_mom
by Gold Member on Feb. 8, 2012 at 12:59 PM
Are you using condomes? I ask b/c there are some that are to thick for my husband, we tried a few u til we found some that worked for both of us.
Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 - Original Poster on Feb. 8, 2012 at 4:11 PM


Quoting young_lv_mom:

Are you using condomes? I ask b/c there are some that are to thick for my husband, we tried a few u til we found some that worked for both of us.

no nope condoms. he had a vacestomy on the 6th of dec.

emilysmom8
by Platinum Member on Feb. 8, 2012 at 4:13 PM
Is he having any health issues? Or is he under alot of stress? Those things can make a mans sex drive go down
CabinMommyNH
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 4:13 PM
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Tell him to stop masturbating!
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MommyVC
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 4:14 PM

Have you tried a sensitivity cream?

ReadWriteLuv
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 4:14 PM
Could that be the issue? He needs to see a doc.

Quoting Anonymous:


Quoting young_lv_mom:

Are you using condomes? I ask b/c there are some that are to thick for my husband, we tried a few u til we found some that worked for both of us.

no nope condoms. he had a vacestomy on the 6th of dec.

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JADIEBUG
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 4:15 PM

He needs to see a DR especially since he had a vasectomy on Dec. 6th.

MamaPrime
by on Feb. 8, 2012 at 4:15 PM

ThenQuoting Anonymous:


Quoting young_lv_mom:

Are you using condomes? I ask b/c there are some that are to thick for my husband, we tried a few u til we found some that worked for both of us.

no nope condoms. he had a vacestomy on the 6th of dec.

Then he needs to get on the phone with his doctor stat! There could be a problem with the procedure! 

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