Busted

[Anonymous]

I just recently started dating a man but I have major trust issues because of what my ex husband did.  So I set him up...I have a 'fake' facebook account and  I messaged him.  He ignored it.  So I sent him a friend request, which he accepted.  I then wrote "I thought I knew you but I guess not".  He responded with "yeah, I don't think we know each other."  Well I messaged back asking to meet him for a drink yesterday.  Well he went to the bar that I asked to meet.  So I busted him.  Here is his response:

If you do still care you will be able to see through this. I made a mistake and I'm owning up to it.  I know it wasn't right, but I do care about you and I think with a little work this can be a great thing. I swear I would never do this again, just give me that chance to show you...  Don't run away from me baby...

Give me a chance please?

What should I do?

 

[JustFox]

I think you should give him a second chance... I understand your ex screwed you over. Mine did too but you have to get past it or you will never be happy with your relationship.

[BoriquaStar]

idk girl I would be livid!! To me that's pretty close to unforgivable....

[momma2aprince86]

Well you did set him up. Did you have reasons to doubt him in the 1st place? or no? Not saying what he did was right either. So idk Just dating? did oyu set up ground rules not to date any one else? I guess if its your BF  walk away but if your only dating and it wasnt agreed to not date others then give him a chance. However if you did have ground rules I would walk away. But also remember to get over your past and that hurt as well. I know its so easier said then done :) good luck with every thing:)

[stormluvers]

walk away!!!! but keep u head up high and dont settle for less then what u want and deserve!!!

[mamacough]

I say RUN, don't walk RUN away from this guy. Trouble from the very start of the relationship is never a good sign. RUN like the breeze! 

[owl0210]

Run

[southern.momof2]

How long have you been dating him? Were you guys dating exclusively?

[Anonymous]

I think you need to work on your trust issues before getting into a relationship a little more. You are setting yourself up for sabatoge by trying to catch men doing something wrong. What happens when a good man doesn't get "busted" but finds out what you were doing? That may create more trust issues from his side.

[CabinMommyNH]

This.

Quoting Anonymous:

I think you need to work on your trust issues before getting into a relationship a little more. You are setting yourself up for sabatoge by trying to catch men doing something wrong. What happens when a good man doesn't get "busted" but finds out what you were doing? That may create more trust issues from his side.

[wjh200]

I think both sides made a mistake and maybe if u like him then you need to accept his apology and make one of your own and see if there is something "there" that can be built upon. If you don't like or care for him the "adios' his behind to the curb! Good luck!!!!