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i just filled for divorce

Anonymous
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i filed for divorce on monday. its been very hard emotionally for me but yesterday i took a pregnancey test and low and behold it was positive.i dont know what to do? he cheated on me with one of my good friends and has abused me both mentally and physically. i dont want to bring a child into this mess! does anyon haave an advice? i dont ever want to see him again i just dont know what to do!!!!!!!!!!1

i have so many emotions..happy, then sad because i dont want him to be the fathe of my baby, im disgusted, scared for both me and the babies safty, i called my lawyer and he told me that the order for protection only works if i have proof and ive never been hit so bad i needed hospitalization? i want to run away. im scared to tell anyone cuz it might get back to him!! i feel so alone!! i know he would be the worst father.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:57 PM
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anikahaynes1
by on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:58 PM
Adoption!
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activitymode
by on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:58 PM
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You have three choices. You know what they are. Good luck!
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angi07
by on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:59 PM
This happened to my sister's mom with my sister she ended up staying but later left. If your unhappy now chances are a baby will only make things worse. I would leave and not say anything its still early see how everything plays out.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Feb. 12, 2012 at 5:59 PM
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Raise that baby alone and file for child support.
Make sure you put that he beat you in ur divorce papers!!
Also get a ofp(order for protection) on him, it lasts a yr yeah do that asap!!
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got2monsters
by Ruby Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 6:00 PM
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Don't tell him and when he finds out tell him u had a one night stand after u filed for the divorce and it's that guys. Good luck mama.
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.betty.white.
by Ruby Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 6:01 PM
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Abortion?  

Or just keep it.  Its YOUR choice.  

But keep going with that divorce, don't go back to a failing and horrible relationship just because of the baby.  Good luck momma. 

QueenBof6
by Ruby Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 6:01 PM
Weigh all your options. And make the decision you feel is right for you.
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newfound09
by Platinum Member on Feb. 12, 2012 at 6:01 PM
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This!

Quoting Anonymous:

Raise that baby alone and file for child support.

Make sure you put that he beat you in ur divorce papers!!

Also get a ofp(order for protection) on him, it lasts a yr yeah do that asap!!
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3xangel
by *Angelicious* on Feb. 12, 2012 at 6:02 PM
Take some time to figure out what you want to do. The feelings you have for him has nothing to do with the feelings you have about your unborn child. Good luck.
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Feb. 12, 2012 at 6:02 PM

 File and move on with your life and your baby.

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