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Is this cheating????

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Do you consider it cheating if you fantasize about another person while you masturbate? Be it a famous person or someone you know in real life. Why or why not?

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Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:21 AM

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sissyboogs

Silver Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:22 AM

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Nope. Fantasizing and doing are two different things.

MommySwag88

Gold Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:23 AM

not at all

mommamorales

Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:24 AM

If you actually know the person I think that can lead to problems but if it is someone you have no chance of meeting I think it's fine!! My 2 big fantasies are Bradley Cooper (yummy) and Channing Tatum (delish) =P

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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:26 AM

What if you never fantasize about your SO?

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MommySwag88

Gold Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:26 AM

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I love both of them mmm mmm lol

Quoting mommamorales:

If you actually know the person I think that can lead to problems but if it is someone you have no chance of meeting I think it's fine!! My 2 big fantasies are Bradley Cooper (yummy) and Channing Tatum (delish) =P

SAHM mother to 2 beautiful little girls, Keanna (6) and Kyra (3) and one little monster baby (Brandon Jr.) on the way, due March 10th 2012. Wife To a wonderful man, Brandon, for almost 8 years and counting!!

Queen_Bree

Silver Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:27 AM

hell no.. thats why its called FANTASY

by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:28 AM

I consider masturbation disgusting. And if you are doing that, while with someone, and thinking of someone else other than your s/o...now that makes it cheating. Lusting after another is cheating in your mind. End result?... Disgusting and cheating. Ewww!!

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MommySwag88

Gold Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:29 AM

It would be more worrysome id you were fantasizing about someone else while having sex with SO not masterbation, that is where imagination takes place, I fantasize about hubby sometimes while I masterbate but not all the time

Quoting Anonymous:

What if you never fantasize about your SO?

by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:34 AM

What if you caught yourself fantasizing about this other person while you and your SO Were having sex? And no its not someone I know. Sex with SO has gotten very boring lately and tonight I caught myself doing that....

Quoting MommySwag88:

It would be more worrysome id you were fantasizing about someone else while having sex with SO not masterbation, that is where imagination takes place, I fantasize about hubby sometimes while I masterbate but not all the time
Quoting Anonymous:

What if you never fantasize about your SO?

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by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:38 AM

Nope... not at all. Granted, as long as he knew about it, and was ok with it, I could be with anyone that I wanted lol.

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