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Posted by on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:20 AM
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Would you let your child spend the night at a friends of the opposite sex house, knowing that they are just friends, and nothing else is going on?

I had a lot more male friend than girl friends growing up. My mom would not let me spend the night with them. Not because she was worried we would do something, but she was worried what people would think of me. She loosened up a little when I was 15 and let me spend the night with my bestfriend a few times.

Another post got me curious. So would you let your child spend the night with a person of the opposite sex, if they were just friends?
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bcauseimthemom
by Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:21 AM

 Nope, not until both were adults.

couponluv72
by Sati on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:22 AM

I will not let my child stay at anyone's house for a sleepover except his grandparents. so this is moot for us

YettaR
by Yetta on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:23 AM
Depends on the age 5-11 yuup...12&up noope
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graciepaige
by Silver Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:59 AM
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Jessica_Esqueda
by Silver Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:59 AM

No.

graciepaige
by Silver Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:10 PM
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DevinAnnesmom
by Sarah on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:12 PM

Nope. I feel like it's inappropriate.

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:13 PM
No
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arielsmomma1020
by BJ on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:26 PM

nope...

MissJamie12
by Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 12:30 PM
No I would not. Although my best friend was a boy from age 11-15 and I stayed at his house all the time, he lived four blocks from us so it wasn't a big deal but I wouldn't let my kids because you never know. Just because I didn't have those feelings for my friend doesn't mean my kids wouldn't and I just wouldn't promote that. They grow up fast enough as it is.
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