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Question for Lesbians

Posted by Anonymous

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If you are gay and your SO uses a strap on on you why not just be with a guy? Im really curious. I have some lesbian and gay friends and so i wanted to know. No I am not bashing Im just trying to understand.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:51 AM

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by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:54 AM

I'm not gay but i would think it would be because of the whole no vagina thing. *shrugs*
I would like to know 2.

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CLH72481

Crystal on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:55 AM

Well because a female is still a female if she wears a strap on during sex. Just because a female likes penitration doesn't necaserily been that she wants a man to use his dick to do it. Penitration with a dildo or strap on is way different than having sex with a male.

by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:55 AM

This is the dumbest question ever

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stevens_mom2008

Mollie on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:55 AM

bump

.Pagan.

Silver Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:56 AM

because women have an orgasm spot inside their vagina.

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Sati on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:56 AM

because a woman is a woman, the strap on provides extra fun for them both.

by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:56 AM

Because she is still a she, strap on or not.

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by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:57 AM

It's not a stupid question. She's curious and I have thought about this too.

Quoting Anonymous:

This is the dumbest question ever

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illinoismommy83

Bronze Member on Feb. 13, 2012 at 11:57 AM

Uh, the strap on is just for sexual stimulation. Women who are lesbians are attracted to women. And for the record, gay men can't "just be with a woman" and have her use a strap on... You are attracted to who you are attracted to. You can't help it. It has nothing at all to do with how they can sexually stimulate you. Sex does not make a deep, meaningful relationship.