I am going to make my bf roommates life hard until she moves out. Its kinda hard to have a future with him when she is still living there. Is that wrong?
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Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:18 PM
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on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:19 PM
Yes. It means that you don't trust him. What kind of future can you have with a man you don't trust?
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on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:20 PM
Does he want her living there? I wouldn't make her life miserable. Just talk to the both of them and come up with some kind of agreement.
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by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:22 PM
It was a living arrangement that worked for them. They are just friends but she is in a committed relationship now so she should go live with him. I may sound jealous but I don't like my man living with another female plain and simple.
Quoting skittlebeans88:
Does he want her living there? I wouldn't make her life miserable. Just talk to the both of them and come up with some kind of agreement.
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on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:23 PM
Go for it girl! I had to do the same thing when I met my hubby.
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on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:24 PM
Just because someone is in a committed relationship doesn't mean they should move in together.
You started dating him knowing he had a female roommate. You sound insecure.
How long have you been dating?
Quoting Anonymous:
It was a living arrangement that worked for them. They are just friends but she is in a committed relationship now so she should go live with him. I may sound jealous but I don't like my man living with another female plain and simple.
Quoting skittlebeans88:
Does he want her living there? I wouldn't make her life miserable. Just talk to the both of them and come up with some kind of agreement.
by Anonymous - Original Poster
on Feb. 13, 2012 at 5:27 PM
We have been together for 10 months. He didn't tell me about her until the fifth month and he said it without thinking. I am not insecure but he is just too comfortable with that living arrangement and I don't think we will ever get to the next level as long as she is there.
Quoting alexsmomaubrys2:Just because someone is in a committed relationship doesn't mean they should move in together.
You started dating him knowing he had a female roommate. You sound insecure.
How long have you been dating?
Quoting Anonymous:
It was a living arrangement that worked for them. They are just friends but she is in a committed relationship now so she should go live with him. I may sound jealous but I don't like my man living with another female plain and simple.
Quoting skittlebeans88:
Does he want her living there? I wouldn't make her life miserable. Just talk to the both of them and come up with some kind of agreement.
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