Has anyone currently/ever been in a polyamorous realationship? Did it work? How did it start? Me and my dh both are considering it but don't know how to start. We have had 3-somes before, but we want more than just sex.
I am not sure about how those things work, but I imagine the keys to a poly relationship is the same as any other. Love, trust, communication, and respect. Good luck! :)
We aren't 100% sure either. We were talking one day, a few days after a 3-sum, and mentioned how nice it would be to not just have sex with a third person but to actually have them in our relationship. It seems right to us, its just picking out the perfect girl is what is going to be tough. Of course we aren't going to tell our kids details, but this person will be in our kids lives as well so it has to be someone we can trust.
Quoting evensmummy:I am not sure about how those things work, but I imagine the keys to a poly relationship is the same as any other. Love, trust, communication, and respect. Good luck! :)
Thats awesome. What does your DH think about it? Honestly for me one of the biggest turn ons that I had during our 3-sums, and I never thought I would have felt this way, was watching DH with her. :)
Quoting echoishername:
I have a gf. But I don't share her with dh. Its really more of a friends with benefits type thing. We hang out, shop, and have sex :)
You should check out the Love & Marriage group. Anryan comes to mind, and she is very open about her relationship.
I am sure that, if you are patient, it will all work out. Hmmm. I am sure it would be a lot like dating. Well, it would be dating, wouldn't it. The point of dating is to see how that person will fit into your life, so yeah.. you would get to date people with him! That actually could be kind of nice for the both of you in the mean time. I think you just need to be open for opportunities, and it sounds as if you are.
Quoting Anonymous:We aren't 100% sure either. We were talking one day, a few days after a 3-sum, and mentioned how nice it would be to not just have sex with a third person but to actually have them in our relationship. It seems right to us, its just picking out the perfect girl is what is going to be tough. Of course we aren't going to tell our kids details, but this person will be in our kids lives as well so it has to be someone we can trust.
Quoting evensmummy:I am not sure about how those things work, but I imagine the keys to a poly relationship is the same as any other. Love, trust, communication, and respect. Good luck! :)
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