thanks for f***ing up my day b****

[Anonymous]

Well my day is just in the dump. Some woman who is a friend of a mom in my play group comes to lunch with us ALL the time. She always makes sly little comments about everyone but yells if you reflect it back on her. So i guess today was my turn. I commenting on how good my salad was. She pointed out the fact that I was done eating first. Now heres the thing we ate at a cafeteria style restaurant and I was the first one to start eating so clearly I would be done way before everyone else. Im really sensitive about my weight. Ive gained about 10 pounds over the last couple of weeks and I dont feel so great about it.  I hate when its tossed up in my face. Between my mom getting sick and now her staying with us ( she drives me up the wall) Ive been just eating my feelings more and more. My husband doesnt like to be home anymore because of my mom so besides CM, Im alone. I really dont like to talk about my feelings unless its with him sooo yea....I just end up eating myself happy.

 I was morbidly obese a child (weird cause I never really looked morbidly obese even though I was 230 by 16) so that 10 ponds feels like 100. I wish people would just shut up. Im not good with confrontation and always pegged the weak one....lets see how long she sticks to me. Hopefully she will just fade away and leave me alone.

[Anonymous]

Just tell her to shut the fuck up.

Respect yourself. Don't allow anyone to make you feel less than superior. If it means you lose Mommy friends, so what, you can make new ones. If you child loses friends, so what, not only can they make new ones but you're teaching them that self worth is everything!

[Vicariously]

Your making too big of a deal out of the comment IMO. Screw her and don't worry about it.

[skittlebeans88]

This exactly.

Quoting Anonymous:

Just tell her to shut the fuck up.

Respect yourself. Don't allow anyone to make you feel less than superior. If it means you lose Mommy friends, so what, you can make new ones. If you child loses friends, so what, not only can they make new ones but you're teaching them that self worth is everything!

[ashiilolo]

I dont get why you would get mad about her commenting about how your done with your salad.

[Supervane]

Quoting Vicariously:

Your making too big of a deal out of the comment IMO. Screw her and don't worry about it.

I agree... You cant control what others say about you but you can control how you feel

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

Quoting ashiilolo:

I dont get why you would get mad about her commenting about how your done with your salad.

It was the way she did it. You like sometimes its not what you say but how you say it

[Anonymous - Original Poster]

I wish it was that easy.......

I extremely sensitive about my weight. The slightest comment will fuck me over for a week. 

Quoting Supervane:

Quoting Vicariously:

Your making too big of a deal out of the comment IMO. Screw her and don't worry about it.

I agree... You cant control what others say about you but you can control how you feel

[MumsTheWord571]

Bitch. I'd make a snotty comment about what she's eating and at least yours was healthy or something.

[DawnPratt23]

So what you finished first. What is this high school? I never care what others say, I'm usually taking too long to eat and am a smart add with remarks.

Ignore it, its her problem not yours.

[mom2bell]

I don't get it.  So what?  And you are extremley sensitive about your weight...you know you are eating to stuff your feelings...so don't!  Lose the weight, and you wont be so sensitive and a stupid observation will not get you unglued.