now is not a good time but i still want....

[Anonymous]

Another child. I have a 2 and 3 year old and I am a stay at home mom. They are the greatest kids when not around eachother but when they are around eachother they will not listen they will fight about id say 50% of the time so that's normal right? Some days are worse than others though....

Then my dh and I we are working to make our marriage better. Its not the best right now. Lately we have been getting along a lot better though which I'm happy about.

Money wise we are doing a lot better on deff now because he just got full time at job.

My kids do have me stresses out more than I should be though. I want another baby though(this would be my last child). I feel like I am ready..but yet things are hetic.

So really has anyone ever been in this situation to where you want a baby so bad but you know at that time its "not a good time"? If so what was the outcome? Or any tips on ... I guess to get my mind off of wanting another baby right now?

I want a baby feel like I can do it but I know due to stresses and dh and I I am being selfish. I cry sometimes because of my feelings! Just any advice I would appreciate! Sorry if this whole post is confusing though!

[Anonymous]

Wait! It will only further your money and relationship problems. Out of all you wrote I just saw "I want because I want." nothing of good substance or reasoning.

[LadyStork]

 DH and I want another baby but it is absolutely out of the question at this point. Plus, his cancer treatments may have rendered him sterile. We can't afford fertility treatments. So two (at least in my book) is plenty.