I'm the type where space can be given but you are still a father first, if you don't want to be near your kid or call to check on your kid thats awful. I would call to let him know his LO is asking for hm and maybe talking on the phone would bring comfort, nagging or not, and leave it up to him. he shouldn't make the little one feel abandoned.
Quoting DomoniqueWS:I'm the type where space can be given but you are still a father first, if you don't want to be near your kid or call to check on your kid thats awful. I would call to let him know his LO is asking for hm and maybe talking on the phone would bring comfort, nagging or not, and leave it up to him. he shouldn't make the little one feel abandoned.
That's a dickheaded move. Have y'all been having problems? There is one thing to have a problem with me but don't you dare take it out on our children. If it were me I would have called him up and chewed him out about him leaving the kids with you and not even calling to see them. You don;'t have to talk to each but your kids need their father.
:( That's not fair to you or the kids. Just give him the space he wants, but be prepared for several posibilities. *hugs*
Quoting mommyof11050307:That's a dickheaded move. Have y'all been having problems? There is one thing to have a problem with me but don't you dare take it out on our children. If it were me I would have called him up and chewed him out about him leaving the kids with you and not even calling to see them. You don;'t have to talk to each but your kids need their father.
He may just be stressed from work and doing school work. My husband goes to school from 8am to 10am. home for a nap and then leaves again at 1:45 for work and gets home around 12:30am. Hes stressed out and over tired but he wouldn't just walk out and say he needs space then leave.
what is UNI?
Quoting NatashaOlivia::
Everythings been amazing with us since we found out this time last year that I was pregnant again. We've moved into a new house and everything's been fantastic. I really don't understand any of this. I've text him and asked him to call 'cause Kiah (our DD) wants to talk to him
Quoting mommyof11050307:That's a dickheaded move. Have y'all been having problems? There is one thing to have a problem with me but don't you dare take it out on our children. If it were me I would have called him up and chewed him out about him leaving the kids with you and not even calling to see them. You don;'t have to talk to each but your kids need their father.
Quoting mommyof11050307:He may just be stressed from work and doing school work. My husband goes to school from 8am to 10am. home for a nap and then leaves again at 1:45 for work and gets home around 12:30am. Hes stressed out and over tired but he wouldn't just walk out and say he needs space then leave.
what is UNI?
Quoting NatashaOlivia::
Everythings been amazing with us since we found out this time last year that I was pregnant again. We've moved into a new house and everything's been fantastic. I really don't understand any of this. I've text him and asked him to call 'cause Kiah (our DD) wants to talk to him
Quoting mommyof11050307:That's a dickheaded move. Have y'all been having problems? There is one thing to have a problem with me but don't you dare take it out on our children. If it were me I would have called him up and chewed him out about him leaving the kids with you and not even calling to see them. You don;'t have to talk to each but your kids need their father.
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on Feb. 15, 2012 at 2:47 AM