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Like To Have A Black Baby

Anonymous
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My white husband knew about my extra marital relationship with well hung black men and he knew how much I adore them so I am actually not cheating on him as he is always there to watch.Recently I have this fantasy of having a black kid from one of my black lovers and I asked my husband and he agrees that I get knocked out by some well hung muscled black guy but the problem is my other 4 kids from my white husband.How can I tell them as they don't know about my sex relationship with other black men and only my husband knows.If I became pregnant with a black baby and delivered him safely what can I tell them?

Any help will be apprecaited.I am 38 years old married white lady.I have 4 kids two of them teens and the other two pre-teens.Please don't talk to me about morality here or why I have sex with other black men while I am married.I do that with the approaval of my husband so it is my own business and thanks for not advising me on that.We are both very open-minded and we are both swingers so we love this life style and have been into it for the last 10 years.We have been married for over 19 years now so we will continue our live despite others disapproval of it.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:20 AM
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DeeDee_28
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:21 AM
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Seriously?
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briesmomisback
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:22 AM
Good luck
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P.V.Hawkwind
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:25 AM
uhhh
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:25 AM
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Troll?
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AphroditesCurse
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:28 AM

I'm assuming you meant knocked up, but that was kinda hilarious when I read it, you do NOT want to get knocked out by a black man I'm assuming. 

Now on to serious matters IF you are serious here wow umm hun if you are serious you are gonna have to explain to your kids what you are doing as nicely as you can because they are going to know that child has a different father. So you are going to have to tell them in some manner that baby has a different dad, also think of all the different things you are opening up, that father may want rights, you may have a mess on your hands. I think you need to think this through.

Quoting Anonymous:

My white husband knew about my extra marital relationship with well hung black men and he knew how much I adore them so I am actually not cheating on him as he is always there to watch.Recently I have this fantasy of having a black kid from one of my black lovers and I asked my husband and he agrees that I get knocked out by some well hung muscled black guy but the problem is my other 4 kids from my white husband.How can I tell them as they don't know about my sex relationship with other black men and only my husband knows.If I became pregnant with a black baby and delivered him safely what can I tell them?

Any help will be apprecaited.I am 38 years old married white lady.I have 4 kids two of them teens and the other two pre-teens.Please don't talk to me about morality here or why I have sex with other black men while I am married.I do that with the approaval of my husband so it is my own business and thanks for not advising me on that.We are both very open-minded and we are both swingers so we love this life style and have been into it for the last 10 years.We have been married for over 19 years now so we will continue our live despite others disapproval of it.


2ndtimemom605
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:37 AM
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Ah hahahahahaha!Troll posts these days are disappointingly easy to spot:(
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2012 at 4:59 AM

AphroditesCurse thanks for your help and great advise I really appreciate it very much.Yes I have to think a lot before taking such a decision although many of my married GF have done that already and they didn't face any problem but as I said my biggest problem is facing my grown up kids with the fact that i had sex with a black man and therefore I had a black baby.My sons are 17 & 15 and they are the core of the problem but my daughter who is only 10 and my youngest son of 7 are much easier to explain to.Husband is very supportive and helping me in this matter and I don't expect any problem from the black father of my black kid because he won't know it him self as I have many black lovers.

caramomof5
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:01 AM
ur crazy!
Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:51 AM

I just don't get why you had to specify "well hung". Do you have sex with them because your husband isn't "well hung". I really don't know what to tell you but if you want to do it who's going to stop you? I do think that it sets a bad example to your children and there is really no way to do it without them knowing. I also hope that your husband doesn't change his mind after you become pregnant with a black baby and leave you. Well actually maybe I should say that if that does happen that you shouldn't be surprised. Are you sure that all of your kids are his? Is he the only white guy you've slept with? Just because your girls will be easier to tell doesn't mean that they will be accepting of the fact the rest of their life. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:58 AM


Quoting Anonymous:

I just don't get why you had to specify "well hung". Do you have sex with them because your husband isn't "well hung". I really don't know what to tell you but if you want to do it who's going to stop you? I do think that it sets a bad example to your children and there is really no way to do it without them knowing. I also hope that your husband doesn't change his mind after you become pregnant with a black baby and leave you. Well actually maybe I should say that if that does happen that you shouldn't be surprised. Are you sure that all of your kids are his? Is he the only white guy you've slept with? Just because your girls will be easier to tell doesn't mean that they will be accepting of the fact the rest of their life. 


Yes my husband penis is too small.No, all 4 kids are from my husband and Yes I had few more sex relationships with other white men before and after marriage too.The reason I used the word "Well Hung" is because I am really impressed with how Black Men are really Big down there.

Thanks for your advise.

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