With our 4 daughters, we decided to wait until they were born to find out the sex. We decided that if I wanted to know for this one, I could find out, but he still wanted to wait and see what the baby's going to be. Well, we're getting one of each (our first son). Before, I get a lot of judgment calls, remember, he doesn't want to know and I know that he'll be elated to have a son. He's an awesome father to our daughters.
Not sure I understand. You're having twins, but he doesn't know AND he doesn't know the gender, or he just doesn't know the gender? :)
not telling him the sex is one thing but not telling him you are having twins? he really should know if there is two new family members you are about to bring into the world. twin births can be very complicated and he should be somewhat prepared for what *might* happen.
If he doesn't want to know the gender of the babies, then I wouldn't tell him. It'll only make the big reveal less thrilling!



- kyrie4
on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:22 AM