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We're Having Twins, But He Doesn't Know

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:22 AM
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With our 4 daughters, we decided to wait until they were born to find out the sex.  We decided that if I wanted to know for this one, I could find out, but he still wanted to wait and see what the baby's going to be.  Well, we're getting one of each (our first son).  Before, I get a lot of judgment calls, remember, he doesn't want to know and I know that he'll be elated to have a son.  He's an awesome father to our daughters.

Posted by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:22 AM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:25 AM
Wow congratulations you should tell him though
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JadedFaerie
by Gold Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:25 AM
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Not sure I understand. You're having twins, but he doesn't know AND he doesn't know the gender, or he just doesn't know the gender? :)

JCakebread
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:26 AM

Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!! Congratulations!!!!!!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:26 AM
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not telling him the sex is one thing but not telling him you are having twins?  he really should know if there is two new family members you are about to bring into the world.  twin births can be very complicated and he should be somewhat prepared for what *might* happen.

Krystle1216
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:26 AM
Congrats!! But are you not going to tell him that there is TWO babies in there and not just one or is this like a surprise on the gender of the baby an oh btw there's one more... He needs to know lol
bmw29
by Gold Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:28 AM
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I think he will figure out the twins thing.
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KatyTxMamma
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:29 AM
You do know that you can tell him you are having twins without telling him the gender, right? That seems weird to me.
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ViridianSoul
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:29 AM

If he doesn't want to know the gender of the babies, then I wouldn't tell him. It'll only make the big reveal less thrilling!

MommaLaura
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:30 AM
That's exciting but I agree I think you should tell him there will be 2 babies and not just 1. Just don't tell him the gender.
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whimsyjuggalett
by on Feb. 15, 2012 at 9:31 AM

wow congrats, you should tell him there are two in there, you don't have to tell him the sex.

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