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Not all teen moms are bad.

Anonymous
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I've seen some teen moms get bashed to pieces in a different group. I don't judge teen moms. Some do go to school ft, work and go home and care for their kids. Then there are the ones who won't care for their kids . Some teen moms got pregnant due to rape and some were irresponsible and didn't use protection. Of course, the few who were taking precautions and their birth control failed. Imo, the teen mom shows make all teen moms look bad.

My cousin was telling me about twin girls she went to school with and they were raped and beaten by their step father daily. Eventually, both teens became pregnant at just 13. One twin chose to abort and the other had her baby. Those poor girls were harassed every day.. both twins ended up running away. Anyway, they were judged horribly. That's why I don't judge when I see teen moms. You never know what the circumstances were.

To those who were or are teen moms, what are your thoughts on teen moms today?
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Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:03 PM
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by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:06 PM
Being a parent is a responsible adult's ability to care for the child. Teen are children and they lack the responsibility and mentality and got an adult has in order to care for their child.

Not all team at moms are bad but most of them Dulac the mentality in order to properly care for their child not Oltean moms are bad I need personally am more
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by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:07 PM
Lol I used my voice command off my phone to type this. Sorry if it sounds all over the place.


Quoting Anonymous:

Being a parent is a responsible adult's ability to care for the child. Teen are children and they lack the responsibility and mentality and got an adult has in order to care for their child.



Not all team at moms are bad but most of them Dulac the mentality in order to properly care for their child not Oltean moms are bad I need personally am more

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caramomof5
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:09 PM
I agree with you also. But its sad what happen to those twin girls, I was a teen mom and it was hard going to school and work full time also. I dont think anyone has the right to say anythig to a teen mom bc it could happen to anyone or to their teen daughters also!
talopa
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:10 PM
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my sister had my nephew at 15. She is now 26 and a licenced massage theripist. she got married this year to a wonderful man that accepts my nephew as his own and they bought a house together. she had a really rough time trying to do school and be a full time parent but it can be done. at one point she had a full time job, massage school and took care of my nephew. teen moms dont need judgement they need support.

parentalrights1
by Silver Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:12 PM

It just cracks me up that grown women whom half of them don't control their own sexuality and end up with unplanned pregnancies expect a bunch of children with a ton of raging hormones to be more in control than they are.

Yeah we all know that sex is dangerous and a responsibility that teens aren't ready for, but people want to go on about how teens don't have fully developed brains or understanding of the world, but want to treat them like scum of the earth as though they were fully grown adults who intentionally did it just to piss them off when they end up pregnant.

I feel for the teen rape victims. Every one of them I have talked to mentioned getting snotty ass comments and being called whores by strangers. People are stupid.

Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:13 PM
I agree. I am a teen mom and I was raped. It is difficult .


Quoting caramomof5:

I agree with you also. But its sad what happen to those twin girls, I was a teen mom and it was hard going to school and work full time also. I dont think anyone has the right to say anythig to a teen mom bc it could happen to anyone or to their teen daughters also!

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caramomof5
by Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:17 PM
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So you kept your baby? I'm sorry you where raped, how old was you when that happen?
FrumpyMama
by Bronze Member on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:19 PM

No, not all teen moms are bad moms. A friend of mine was raised by a teen mom and she turned out just fine. The trouble is the teen moms who don't want to deal with their children and would rather do 'fun' things. Not saying they shouldn't be allowed to have fun, just saying that when you have kids, fun has a different meaning. 

Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:25 PM
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i was a teen mom who had my DD at 16...i went to school everyday and worked...my parents did help but i raised my own child with the help of her father...i graduated with a 3.4...im still in college and it is not easy but i wouldnt trade my life with anyone...my daughter is in dance classes and does well in pre-k...advanced at reading and math...
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by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 15, 2012 at 5:31 PM
I was 15. Yeah my parents and I discussed it and in the end I chose to have her. The father signed over all rights. I am still in school and go full time. I'm currently looking for a job to help my parents out with expenses.


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Quoting Anonymous:






So you kept your baby? I'm sorry you where raped, how old was you when that happen?

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