The world is full of babies and children without loving parents. Maybe if infertile couples weren’t so hung up on having their "very own home-brewed genetically-similar” child, more of these kids would have homes.
Adoption is, clearly, the more moral choice. IVF is nothing more than selfish asshats who “need” a baby with their genes.
Family is about LOVE. If you can’t love a child that isn’t genetically related to you, you don’t deserve to have children at all.
Adopt or GTFO.