I am tired of hearing how I stole another good black man

[Anonymous]

I am all for black men marrying/dating whoever they want back,white, asian, or mexican but if I get another evil stare or snide comment about how there goes another white women taking one of our good back men I'm going to lose it. i have been all over the country and gotten these snide remarks everywhere. Okay I know that statistically speaking a lot of black women are single NOT ALL but a lot are statiscallly speaking. However that is not my fault. I have nothing to do with the reasons why you can't find yourself a good man. 

[Anonymous]

i agree 100%

[Radarma]

 Yeah, that would bug me too.

[Anonymous]

If people ask me or my husband one more time if he is with me just to et citizenship, I will lose it.

[Anonymous]

I find it sad that this is still an issue these days. I remember it in the movie Save the Last Dance, that's what it reminds me of.

[Anonymous]

Omg lol I havent heard that in awhile. Me and df use to hear it alot. how dare you have a good man!!! LOL

[Anonymous]

That's ignorant as hell. I'm sorry.

Quoting Anonymous:

If people ask me or my husband one more time if he is with me just to et citizenship, I will lose it.

[NDADanceMom]

 I see less "good black men" and more "ugly white women" and not so good black men couples.  I rarely see a tyler perry/ beautiful white woman couple.

[Anonymous]

I got those comments when I was with my ex, it sucks.

[Anonymous]

You didn't take or steal anything, if he wanted a black woman he would have one. They need to look inward before blaming others. There is something lacking within themselves.

[MathMom22]

I wonder what those same black women would say if a white woman told them to stop stealing all the good white men!  I bet they would be pretty upset.  A little empathy in this world would do everyone a lot of good.