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Anonymous
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long story short...

i got pregnant, he wanted me to abort. i kept my son. he wasnt at the hospital at all. he met our son when he was like 1 week old, only cause itook him to his house. my son is 7 weeks old and he has came to see him less than 10 times.thigns were looking better and im getting ready to move out of my sisters i asked him if he wanted to move in together in a couple months he said yes. i asked him to buy him diapers a week ago, he said he would. he never did. i text him and asked him wtf was his deal,he never replied and  hes been ignoring me for the past few days. WTF do i do? i HATE SILENT TREATMENTS. i want to put him on child support but i dont want that to push him away from his son.

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:02 AM
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luvcloudydays
by Silver Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:04 AM
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Ugh, please, never get pregnant again.
t1gger143
by Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:05 AM
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Get child support and custody taken care of ASAP. Don't worry about pushing him away. If he wants to be there he will be.
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MzHuycke
by Bronze Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:06 AM
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 Cant push him away if he isnt coming around.. Get his ass for child support

mghtymffn
by Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:06 AM

start thinking about your son, not that douchebag!

SarahLizyB
by Gold Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:06 AM
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Cut ties. Why would you want this bad example in your child's life anyways?
Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:06 AM
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ok bitch its a child support question NOT a "where do i hide my dead childs body" question.

fuck u. im a good mom. not my fault that his dad isnt.

Quoting luvcloudydays:

Ugh, please, never get pregnant again.


Anonymous
by Anonymous on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:06 AM
Idk the story outside of this... but maybe get a dna if he has issues and seek counseling for him.. he may be scared to mess the kid up or just really maybe a deadbeat....btw put his ass on cs.!!!
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lusyl95
by Silver Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:07 AM
He is obviously not a keeper hun. He is avoiding you. Move on hun. avoid the heartache, if not for you do it for your child! you and your child deserve more than what he is offering! Best wishes!
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LizzieJane
by Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:07 AM
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The kind of "man" who would stop seeing his son because of having to pay child support is really not a "man" at all.

Do you need the money to be able to provide for you son? If so, then you need to file. Your son deserves to have all of his needs met, and his father has a responsibility to partially provide for those needs!
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Jennifer_57
by Silver Member on Feb. 23, 2012 at 2:08 AM
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My daughter four and her bio father has seen her less than ten times
File child support and see what he is actually doing and make him accountable even if he doesnt want to see the baby..its his loss
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