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I met my dh while I was a stripper 10 yrs ago

Anonymous
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Now we have a wonderful family.  I only did that for a short period of time. Do I tell my child where i met there father? Maybe something* a made up story** now while my child is younger he is 4 now.. then tell the truth as an adult. how wouldyou handle this??

Posted by Anonymous on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:46 AM
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blessed.life
by on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:47 AM
I wouldn't.

Leave that part of the past in the past :)
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CadesMum
by Gold Member on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:49 AM
Well, I sure as hell wouldn't tell him now. And as an adut, I wouldn't either. Don't disenchant the kid!
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Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:49 AM
Just tell your child that you guys met at work.
MumsTheWord571
by on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:49 AM
This


Quoting Nicoleb9:

Just tell your child that you guys met at work.

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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:50 AM

okay so where do i tell my child i met there dad..
Quoting blessed.life:

I wouldn't.

Leave that part of the past in the past :)

cherrywaves21
by on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:50 AM
To me it's nothing to be ashamed of. I have never stripped but idk I just don't get lying about it. Keep things age appropriate but don't lie.
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Nicoleb9
by Emerald Member on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:51 AM
Quoting Anonymous:




Tell them it was at a night club. This way when they're older and you feel like you can be honest about where you met their dad, they won't be able to say that you lied since strip clubs are also essentially night clubs.
blessed.life
by on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:51 AM
I don't have all the answers honey!

I am just saying I wouldn't tell my child I met their father stripping.

I'd say at a club?


Quoting Anonymous:


okay so where do i tell my child i met there dad..
Quoting blessed.life:

I wouldn't.



Leave that part of the past in the past :)



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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:52 AM

love my kid but he asks a million and one ?'s.  So that will work for awhile.. but lets say he asks when he is 9 and wants to know where i worked? 

Quoting Nicoleb9:

Just tell your child that you guys met at work.


Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Feb. 25, 2012 at 1:55 AM

this is a good idea.  honestly this is my plan.. dh told his brother where he met me.. And his brother told my mil ( HIS MOM).. So I hope she can just keep her mouth shut.. She has been known to throw me under the buss:(

Quoting Nicoleb9:

Quoting Anonymous:




Tell them it was at a night club. This way when they're older and you feel like you can be honest about where you met their dad, they won't be able to say that you lied since strip clubs are also essentially night clubs.


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