get hard even if he's not interested or attracted to you and have sex?
The reason I'm asking is . I caught my husband texting this 49 year old woman (we are younger) and he said some not so nice things about me. like "he hates having sex with me and he's not attracted to me" I have since separated from him, and he told me the stuff he said wasn't true. I always wondered tho if he meant it, but he always got hard when we had sex. I'm planning on divorcing him.