Just because they came first dont mean they come first. They should rank the same and anyone who says different is a bitter cunt. Oh and its normal to feel more bond with a baby you grew in your own body than a kid youve only known a few years out of its life. But that dont mean you dont love them too. Stop telling everyone theres one rule for every situation and if you dont fit in that little box your a sucky stepmom. Some of you bitches who gang up on the stepmoms need to get a jar of peanut butter stuck up your ass.
Love, a bio mom who isnt a stepmom but thinks not all stepmoms are bad
And explain to me why i should feel the same about a stepkid if me and the dad got divorced and Id have NO rights to it at all. You cant have it both ways.