That she really needs to knock it off with her sense of entitlement? We help her out alot but if we dare say "no" to her, she acts like a child and has even refused to come over after we drove across town to pick her up. She just takes advantage of our good nature and I'm sick of it. Otherwise she is a nice woman and I love her, we used to be very close. Since I've become a mother she judges everything I do. She pretty much raised her other grand children, she says they feel like her 5th and 6th children - her son's kids. Mother was a deadbeat. Kids haven't seen her in years. Anyway, I am the opposite, I am with my child 97% of the time and am the primary caregiver. So I think this bothers her but would never admit it. I'm going to see her on Thursday and I just don't know how I can open up to her without hurting her feelings.