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Personal, maybe TMI... Insecutities

Anonymous
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It wasnt until I was 19 and watched adult films for the first time that I realized my clit and inner labia are larger than most women. I have since had insecities about this. While most guys have said nothing, my ex husband used to say how women parts gross him out cause it looks like roast beef. That never helped my insecurities...

So Ive noticed while changing my daughter's diapers that hers are much like mine, in that they seem larger than it should. Now Ive read that it can be common among hispanics (which I am). But how do I help her if she becomes insecure when it's something Ive never come to terms with. I dont want her to ever feel like I do.....
Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:30 PM
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angelbaby1977
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:31 PM
Have you talked to your pediatrician?
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Supervane
by Ruby Member on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:32 PM
First come to term with your own body... Yen worry about the future with your dd
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:35 PM
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southernchick06
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:36 PM
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Elyce225
by Emerald Member on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:36 PM

You can have surgery on your vag for that.  If it bothers you that bad you should look into it.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:36 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 3 on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:37 PM
ok, never heard of the Hispanic thing..but not all woman are the same.
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MlkandCookies
by on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:38 PM

Porn is not a good indication of "normal" there is a huge variation in the general population.

rockgal81
by Steph on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:41 PM

So true! Most of the porn stars have vaginaplasty and different surgeries to make it look all outta wack down there! lol

Quoting MlkandCookies:

Porn is not a good indication of "normal" there is a huge variation in the general population.


Why do people say you can't have your cake and eat it too? Why would somebody get cake if they can't eat it??!!

Anonymous
by Anonymous 4 on Mar. 4, 2012 at 5:42 PM

It's okay! 

  Explain to her in general just like boys girls parts come in different sizes, don't bring her parts up at all make it a general statement. 

That way if it ever comes up she defaults to duh all ladies are different! 


*hugs* 

It's true all ladies are different and there is not a thing wrong with that. 

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