I am just looking for honest opinions here. How do you all feel about being attracted to or getting involved with a step sibling or step cousin? My step brother and I have had sex on and off for a few years. We are like best friends and always there for each other. Super close. Now we are thinking of taking the relationship public and known to our family. Problem is,our parents freaked out when they caught us having sex once. Now that we are both adults, I don't see the problem with it,but my mom may disown me and my child. I am pregnant and pretty sure its his,but I don't know what to do. Have any of you been in a similar situation? Also what are your views on step siblings or cousins being together or sleeping together?
I didnt want to include this,but I was asked a few times: Our parents were married when I was 9 and he was 13. He came over for visits,and family vacations,but didnt live with us until I was almost 17. I lost my virginity to my step brother. We were able to sneak for while,but eventually our parents caught us. They flipped and raised hell. We still kept in contact after that, then begin spending time together. I was even with him his 1st year of college, I was still in HS. After that, I broke it off with him bc of distance and bc it was so forbidden. I tried to move on,eventually i became involved with a guy in the Army,he was a bit older. We ended up having a child together(during my last year of college). He was physically and mentally abusive,but I still tried to make things work. After awhile,I couldn't do it anymore,so got up the strength to finally leave. My SO(step brother was there for me and we became super close,but still no sex). My ex and I tried again to make it work for my DD(I know I was dumb for it) but I couldn't. All his claims of changing were B.S. I finally left for good,but he ended up putting me in the hospital before that,he forced himself on me and attacked me. He chased me through the house with an umbrella, dragged me by the hair , choked me, and slammed me around. It was pretty bad. Once again,my SO came to the rescue once he found out. I am pretty sure it is my SOs baby bc before my ex forced me, we weren't having sex.