No, it's not cheating, but it is still a douchebag thing to do.
If you can't use your discretion while drunk and you can't trust yourself while drinking and you're in a relationship, you shouldn't drink.
I don't care HOW wasted I am. I haven't had sex with a dude then forgotten it, I haven't given my number to a man and regretted it.
No. I would get past this pretty quickly, provided my husband put up boundaries so it wouldn't happen in the future.
Alcohol affects people in different ways, he may have not been thinking clearly. From now on if he wants to go to a bar and knows alcohol imapirs his judgement in this way, limit himself to one drink only and then be done. If he can't do it THEN I would start to think something else is going on and get a little hurt by it.
There are much bigger things you are going to have to deal with in the 60+ years you will be with him if you really want to make it last!



- BabiiYarellie
on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:14 PM