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Would you consider this cheating???

Posted by on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:14 PM
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What do you consider cheating? Oviously having sex with another indiviual is cheating...but what if your husband went to a bar and spoke to another women and exchanged numbers..next day regret it and never call that women again..would you still consi:)er it cheaing??..,leave your comments?
by on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:14 PM
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Anonymous
by Anonymous 1 on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:15 PM
No
Mare1180
by on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:16 PM
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no but I consider him untrustworthy
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lnlsmommy
by Bronze Member on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:16 PM
Yes numbers were exchanged with some sort of intent. Would I leave....probably not. Jus my opinion.
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GavinsMom101310
by on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:16 PM
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If he gives his number to her, and gets hers, it shows intent to cheat.
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myboysRmyhero
by on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:17 PM
No not at all
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SarahLizyB
by Gold Member on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:17 PM
We would absolutely have to talk about his intentions and our relationship, but it would be something we could get past.
acrogodess
by Ruby Member on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM
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No, it's not cheating, but it is still a douchebag thing to do.

hp2011
by Ruby Member on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM
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If you can't use your discretion while drunk and you can't trust yourself while drinking and you're in a relationship, you shouldn't drink.

I don't care HOW wasted I am. I haven't had sex with a dude then forgotten it, I haven't given my number to a man and regretted it.

brittonJ
by on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM

No. I would get past this pretty quickly, provided my husband put up boundaries so it wouldn't happen in the future.

Alcohol affects people in different ways, he may have not been thinking clearly. From now on if he wants to go to a bar and knows alcohol imapirs his judgement in this way, limit himself to one drink only and then be done. If he can't do it THEN I would start to think something else is going on and get a little hurt by it.

There are much bigger things you are going to have to deal with in the 60+ years you will be with him if you really want to make it last!

NVL0707
by Ruby Member on Mar. 11, 2012 at 2:18 PM
Not cheating but diffently intent to cheat.I would not put up with it.
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