I have contemplated posting this for the last couple of hours. I didn't want to hear what I already know. However, I need to get it out, and things got worse.
Today is Sunday, which means my SO takes our 3 y/o DS to sunday school, and spends the day doing stuff and they come back around dinner time. I get a chance to be with our other son who will be 2 in a couple weeks. I feel that I have missed out on a lot of the baby things, and really enjoy this one on one time. It also gives me a chance to relax, clean, laundry, and an opportunity cook a very yummy Sunday super. We all woke up late, thanks to day light savings time, and the two of them were off to a crazy late start. Oh, well, it happens. We texted a few times during the day and talked once or twice. Didn't seem to be any problems. I went on with my day as I always do. Around the time that they would be getting back, he called me. "I got rear ended." My first question was if everyone was alright, and the car. "Everyone is fine, very little damage, I think they just hit the hitch" I suggested he take down the info anyways, and when he got home he could looks and make sure there wasn't any damage. Even a scratch on our nice car should get fixed. He calls back a couple of times, he wasn't really making any sense. He told me the car info, and said he got the guys name and liscenses plate. I am like ... Okay. Great! I asked if he was going to call the cops, or just file a police report when he got home. Best to cover all basis. He said, "I'll think about it, let me hang up and focus." okay, no big deal. A little time passes and the two of them walk through the door. Everyone is fine! :) I greet, and begin the normal conversation with my son about how everything went at Sunday school. Then SO starts yelling. He asking me for the guys info! I told him, I don't have it, I didn't write it down. He just FREAKS OUT! Then it happens.
He grabs me, he pinches me, he kicks me the wrisk. At some point I got a little cut on my lip. I am just freak out, I start crying. Which makes him more mad. I told him I am going to leave. And he storms out of the house. (this is right in front of our 3 y/o) I text him that I didn't do anything wrong. he text back profanities, and horrible things. He is gone for hours. I am shaking inside, and just spending time with my boys.
Then he gets home. He goes to the fridge to get dinner out. He doesn't say two words to me. I am still really upset, and pissed off. I told him the salad was mine. Then get out another dish I made. I told him that was mine. He THREW the bowl on the floor. Smashed it (it was a very nice glass bowl) and pieces or EVERYWHERE! (again, in front of the 3 y/o). "there you go, eat it off the floor." He grabs his keys and walks out.
I put the boys in bed. I texted him whats going on? Whats wrong? Why is he acting this way? He asks me to stop. No answers.
This is completely out of his character. We have had two other fights were I could say I have seen this anger, but I totally was pushing his buttons. This time, I honestly did nothing. Sure, I didn't write down the guys info ... but I thought he did!
Please tell me what you think??