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Would you judge me???

Posted by on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:17 AM
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I was recently read a post of a mother whos judgemental of overweight people, she was very harsh and cruel also made very mean comments...after my pregnancy I gainef weight I used to be 128 lbs and now weigh 154 lbs...ive been trying to loose weight I eat alot of fruits and vegetables ill take the stroller out and take evening walks..i havnt lost any weight...yet..well anyways my conclusion is if you seen me out at the store or somewhere would you judge my weight? Thank you:)
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by Anonymous on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:33 AM

I look at it this way.  If there is a global food shortage, I will probably last longer than the waifs. My kids will eat before me.  I don't think you are too bad!  I wouldn't judge you.  At least you are changing you habits and making an effort.

mom2cheesebug
by Gold Member on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:33 AM

No, i understand its hard to lose weight after a pregnancy and that our metabolisms change. I got lucky and lost 30lbs in two weeks after DD was born. Then it just fell off, im actually skinnier than before i got pregnant and i have been trying to put on weight but i can't. I can't eat junkfood cause it makes me sick, something about being borderline diabetic is what my doc told me. Junk food and sugar has the opposite effect on me, makes me sick to my stomache and really tired.

melakay1981
by Platinum Member on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:33 AM

Nope I have friends of all different races, sexes and sizes.  I do my best not to judge people because I do not know thier story and never walked a day in their shoes. 

hautemama83
by Ruby Member on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:34 AM
Nope
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momo3fgr8tteens
by Ruby Member on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:40 AM

It sounds like you are doing things to take care of yourself and that is what is important. I don't think most people judge others by weight so don't worry what someone on here says. 

mommamimzy2
by on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:43 AM
Um no...now if you act like a jerk...still not judging your weight...
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BlackCat7
by on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:45 AM

Why do you care if someone judges? Fuck them, they clearly have major issues to deal with.

amnesialand69
by Bronze Member on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:46 AM
Nope i wouldnt judge you.
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moniagee
by Gold Member on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:47 AM
This, EXACTLY!!!

Quoting bozobean:

Nope! I'm more overweight than you, and if someone wants to judge me, they can kiss my fat ass. Why do you care what some random bitch on CM who doesn't know you thinks anyway?
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teresa06
by Bronze Member on Mar. 13, 2012 at 12:47 AM
No.. R u tall as well? Im 5'9 and weigh 150 but from looking at me u wouldnt guess it jus cuz im so tall.
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