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Not happy

Anonymous
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I don't know where to begin.....

I am just not happy anymore. I don't want to get divorced. I did not marry to get a divorce. He is a wonderful father....just not so great husband. I know he loves his children and his children bring out the best in him. But when it is just us, there is no spark. 

Just looking to see I can get some words of wisdom from you ladies.

Posted by Anonymous on Mar. 15, 2012 at 11:00 AM
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OrionsMyBabyman
by on Mar. 15, 2012 at 11:01 AM
What brought you guys together in the first place? What made you fall in love with him and agree to marry him? Find that again.
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Mare1180
by on Mar. 15, 2012 at 11:03 AM
do you go on date nights with him?
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 15, 2012 at 11:03 AM

Seems like I can't even remember those days anymore. 

HIJKLM
by Ruby Member on Mar. 15, 2012 at 11:04 AM
Try to remember what you liked. If that doesn't work (or in addition to) try something new. Try to find alone time and "get to know eachother".

Or the issue might be that you feel you've lost yourself. Do something that makes you happy. If you're happy you make others happy and they in turn make you happier... It's a vicious cycle lol
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Anonymous
by Anonymous - Original Poster on Mar. 15, 2012 at 11:05 AM

No, no date night. Have 3 little ones and have never left alone at night with someone.

Anonymous
by Anonymous 2 on Mar. 15, 2012 at 11:07 AM
No one gets married to get a divorce... but if u r truly unhappy and you dont see things changing, sometimes divorce is what is best for ALL involved, even the kids.
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