My mom always bakes me a cake and has my grandpa over for my birthday which isn't much of a party but its tradition. 2/25/11 I became a mom, I was breastfeeding and lost my baby weight then I got mirena put in and stopped because I needed a breast reduction. My weight zoomed to 235 and has been stuck there since early fall. My grandpa saw me on Thanksgiving this fat, Christmas this fat, New Years. Well my birthday is in a couple weeks and my mom who is obsessed with weight just like my grandpa she was anorexic for 20 yrs said she won't have a party because it would kill my grandpa to see me this fat. Bitch he has seen me this fat!! She says I'm lying, I'm fatter. I want to die. I hate her. I wish she would fucking die the cunt its bad enough you make me feel like shit 364 days a year about myself and now you are taking the last one too? Fucking bitch.