My boys 12 and 6 spent the night at a friends/neighbors house Saturday night. When I walked over at around 10:30 Sunday morning to see if my oldest took his medicine I found my 6 year old and their 7 year old in the backyard playing around the pool while the older kids and the parents were still sleeping. I flipped out and told their son to go inside and I made my son come home and not go over to play for the rest of the day. I also talked to the parents later that day and they said they had told all the kids that they were not allowed to play outside at all and that the kids had snuck out their and that they would make sure it never happened again. So, today all the kids have been bouncing back and forth between my house and theirs (spring break, so no school) just now I walk over to have mine come home and I find all the kids on the boat fishing with no life jackets (we live on a lake) while mommy is sleeping in the house! I am so freaking mad, that is it. From now on they are playing over here or not at all. I watch them when they are here and I would expect the same when they are there. I just took my kids home and I will let her know how unhappy I am later. Do you think I am overreacting?