when me and my husband (of almost a yr) were just dating right after we graduated high school he dumped me, at that point we had been together and inserperable for 2 and a half yrs we have always been crazy about each other, always talked about getting married. anyway in that time period he went kinda nuts partied and drank constantly, changed his whole personality. we would split up and get back together multiple times, i never handled the break ups well, now every time i have a memory of our time apart like if a song comes on that reminds me of it, it tears me apart and i feel all that hurt again, it's caused a lot of insecurities for me about our relationship. the 3rd and final time we got back together he finally proved to me that he really was serious about our relationship and wanted to be with me forever. i moved in 2 days later and he asked me to marry him that same day. that was a year ago and we're happy now but i wish i could just forget the time we spent apart and the person he turned into when he didn't have me.